Articles of youth good

ARTICLES OF YOUTH GOOD association
We all know now a lot of unhealthy relationships in our environment is especially socially teenagers or children who are new to pubertas. how future we can strive for the teens to have a good healthy relationships so as quality of life will increase as foundation to grow into an adult so it does not easily fall into the socially less good or less healthy. In this case the role of the people around him will also affect adolescent relationships, at home the role of parents help shape that child's character for the better, in school teachers also help the formation of character siswa.Lingkungan is one of the causes of teenage promiscuity is good or distorted, because The teens spend their time playing after school so they automatically more socially interact with the general environment.


Teens who are happy to be getting along well too, the form of attention and affection is very important because of the lack of attention and affection teenagers will be caught up in socially unhealthy, attention and affection it must come from the parents in advance or immediate family and next comes from playmates. Teens who fall in the association freesexs, drugs, drink alcohol, usually because they do not get the love and attention, especially from family and happened to these teens get in a particular community dipergaulan poor but he can be accepted in the community as it is usually because the rules are loose what aja allowed so she feels comfortable dikomunitas it. The teenager will shun promiscuity when he already felt happy with all the attention and affection he received from the people nearby, so he did not have time to look for comfort dtempat another in ways that indirectly will make him the wrong way life.


Because If teenagers have got into the wrong environment usually when drawn into a family environment will be difficult because they are still very comfortable with the new things they feel. So before engaging much more should be anticipated with the gift of love affection and attention enough so that he did not seek out a way unfavorable way. Environment also contributes significantly or very influential, therefore, takes the role of parents and schools in terms of supervision. Because the name is still unstable teenager volatile mood change that takes accompanied and supervised since they are still searching for the identity of a trip for identity mereka.Dalam these are the things associated with promiscuity is very vulnerable.


The easiest way to know the state of adolescent promiscuity is a way to know his friend, who is his friend and background of how, where his home and a gathering place where. This can be known if there is a pattern of good communication between parents and children such as children when they are away will say goodbye and will inform where and go home at what time, if there is good communication in which the child will be detected. There are also children who lied to cover interest if he honestly did not get permission from a parent. But also do not be too strict supervision so that children learn to be given confidence that he studied was given the responsibility of decision or agreement that has been taken. Let teenagers normally gets along with his friends, parents enough watching from afar and when a deviation occurs then the parents reprimand children are still small deviation tersebut.Bila start is with subtle reprimand that teenagers also feel appreciated.
Not all as lucky as other teenagers because teenagers grow up in a family that is less of a concern because the number of children is too much, the parents of a broken home, economic factors, both her parents are busy working to meet the material but are less able to pay attention. For these teens can get the attention of other people for example selective origin in positive activities which in addition to the means to get along well even towards achievement. The bottom line though is not getting enough attention from the family environment but still trying to find a positive association in activities that could be in religious activities.

How to be done so that teens have healthy relationships and Good:

    The presence of religious guidance as early as possible so that children have a powerful behavior control in the association if it made a mistake in order to feel fear to God.
    Giving affection and adequate attention both from the family and the surrounding environment.
    Provide an oversight, his friend who playground where. Including supervision in the use of media that is currently growing very rapidly.
    Try to recognize the talents and interests that can be channeled positively in good relationships.

Ways to create healthy relationships in adolescents, there are several ways. Among others are :
v The presence of religious awareness for adolescents - For teenagers indispensable for understanding, deepening, and adherence to religious teachings. In everyday reality shows that teenagers who commit crimes mostly do not understand the religious norms. Therefore, we must have a religious consciousness in order not to fall into unhealthy relationships.
v Has -agar solidarity can be established either teenagers social relationships, the role of solidarity is needed. Because awareness is what can make teenage life of society become peaceful.
v Selecting -Maksud friend of choosing friends is to anticipate that we are not affected by the nature of which is not good / healthy. However, but the friends that we have not bad pegaulannya exile. But we remain friends with her but had to keep a distance. Do not get too close to him.
v Charge time with positive activities -For those of their spare time by reading a bad (eg novel / comic sex), then it would be dangerous, and can prevent them to do good. Therefore, if there is free time we have to fill it with things that are positive. Such as writing stories, drawing, or other.
v Between men and women have certain limitations -agar not happen things that are not desirable, preferably young people must keep a distance with the opposite sex. For example, do not sit too close together because it can lead to things that are not desirable.
v Stabilize emotions - If you have a problem, we should not be emotional. Be patient with a way to calm down. Should resolve the problems with communication, not anger / emotion.
In conclusion I think is in creating a healthy and good relationships in adolescents was at the start of adolescence itself. But teenagers also need support from the people around from parents and friends teman.Pergaulan good is the association that can lead young people to become personally courteous, useful for older people, the environment and good bangsa.Pergaulan can tell which things -it is good and rush in the mix and there are certain limitations in the mix so that adolescents are in accordance aturan.pergaulan good always gives motivation for adolescents to achieve his goals so there is no time for things that are not useful to them, although so they were still playing for merefresing brains and their minds but with things that naturally like to spend time watching bioskop.Karena dimall or juveniles hang out with good will always remember their responsibility as the responsibility as children and school pupils.